Dear woman, dear man..


There are ruthless ways your own words may have been translated. There are places you sing songs of war and some you whisper courage. Twice you may have been beaten down by fear, ignorance and love with hopes to come to terms with ever flowing chills. You may have seen you without the others, those you lean so strongly on, those who made you want to read this in the first place. Perhaps, I’m wrong. Wrong about you being unhappy and in pain, constantly wanting more, or maybe you’re happy for the wrong reasons. This may not be for you, this may be for more.

For you.

Dear woman,

You can’t bear it all. It’s perfectly okay to take a step back and care for you. It’s alright that you feel for two, to feel more for others. It’s womanly to embrace your beauty and show off what you’re sensitive to. Your boldness is what men who lack courage detest, your aura is what keeps you grounded to your ego. When you are passionate, the others may not understand, when you seek, you find the roots, when you cry the earth bleeds, when you’re broken the world hears you too. You matter without validation, you’re a piece men cannot do without. You have the ability to create and recreate generations and this power makes you a god. You were born to nurture, give, give, give and give again. Bear this in mind when you belittle you. Hold this high up in your head when you walk into crowded rooms. Educate others when they say to you “you can’t”. Let it warm you always. Let it keep you with love.

For you.

Dear man,

 We hear you. We hear when you’re silent, as it’s as loud as your ego. Your strength and resilience is admirable. The corners you cut and the length you go to get what you deserve have bred feminists. You have the ability to break and mend even though you may choose the former in pressing situations. Your pride and consistency for the things you’re passionate about makes good women appreciate you and good men work diligently with you. However, you sail with your crew members only, often forgetting that passengers could know a thing or two about sailing. It’s totally okay to let your shield down. These walls you build against us breaks you more than it does to us. It’s okay to feel, to cry, to admit to not knowing. It’s fine to accept women that ask for equality, to feel intimidated by once in a while. It’s okay to ignore challenges and just feel. Live with and for the moment without chasing shadows. Breathe without asking for more air. Allow yourself to be drowned by and with love, allow yourself to understand what you constantly fight, allow yourself to hold on for long without the thoughts of letting go. You were born supreme. Society has made you in-charge, regardless, seek to open up a bit more.

Dear woman, dear man..

You need each other to grow, understand, love, feel, chase, reciprocate, challenge,bear and live. You need you most importantly. Begin with this.

Dyna Ekwueme Copyright, 2017.


12 Comments Add yours

  1. Jehona Thaqi says:

    Wow. I am lacking words. This is wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing your words with us and for reminding us of our worth!

    Liked by 3 people

  2. ipeniwrite says:

    Thank you for finding it here🌸

    Liked by 1 person

  3. hideawaygirl says:

    Yes I love this so much….really really really amazing…my words exactly! I don’t know what to say, it’s left me speechless!

    Liked by 3 people

  4. ipeniwrite says:

    I’m glad you took it in. Thank you dear.


  5. Sionee says:

    This is really awesome… Thanks Dyna 😀

    Liked by 1 person

  6. ipeniwrite says:

    Thank you Sisi😃😃😃😘


  7. Sionee says:

    You’re welcome 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  8. KM says:

    Absolutely beautiful, thank you. And thank you for following my blog.

    Liked by 1 person

  9. ipeniwrite says:

    Thank you too🌸

    Liked by 1 person

  10. Dolly Bansal says:

    Wow. Mesmerised. Beautiful indeed.

    Liked by 1 person

  11. Dolly Bansal says:

    Thank you so much for following. It means a lot. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  12. ipeniwrite says:

    I’m glad you found it so🌸

    Liked by 1 person

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